Grief Resources
Losing someone you love can be overwhelming and grieving is often lonely. Finding the right support can change all of that. Below please find links to all of my favorite resources including books, podcasts, organizations, therapists and coaches, and online support communities.
Books & Online Resources
Books, Journals, & Workbooks:
- A to Z Healing Toolbox by Susan Hannifin-MacNab
- A Grief Observed by C.S. Lewis
- The Aftergrief: Finding Your Way Along the Long Arc of Loss by Hope Edelman
- Anxiety the Missing Stage of Grief by Claire Bidwell Smith
- Bearing the Unbearable by Joanne Cacciatore
- The Beauty of What Remains by Steve Leder
- Even in Darkness: A Guided Grief Journal by Morgan Cheek
- Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief by David Kessler
- Finding the Words: Moving Through Profound Loss with Hope and Purpose by Colin Campbell
- Grief Day By Day by Jan Warner
- Grief is Love by Maria Renee Lee
- The Grieving Brain: by Mary-Frances O’Conner
- The Grief Recovery Handbook by John James & Russell Friedman
- Hardcore Grief Recovery Workbook by Steve Case
- Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations by Martha Whitmore Hickman
- How to Carry What Can’t Be Fixed: A Jounal for Grief by Megan Devine
- I Wasn’t Ready to Say Goodbye by Brooke Noel & Pamela Blair
- It’s OK That You’re Not OK by Megan Devine
- On Grief and Grieving by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler
- Option B by Cheryl Sandberg & Adam Grant
- Your Grief, Your Way by Shelby Forsythia
- Modern Loss: Candid Conversations About Grief by Rebecca Soffer
- The Modern Loss Handbook: An Interactive Guide by Rebecca Soffer
- Moving On Doesn’t Mean Letting Go: A Modern Guide to Navigating Loss by Gina Moffa
- Navigating Grief: A Guided Journal by Mia Roldan
- The Other Side of Sadness by George Bonanno
- Passed and Present: Keeping Memories of Loved Ones Alive by Allison Gilbert
- Progressing Through Grief: Guided Exercises by Stephanie Jose
- Resilient Grieving by Lucy Hone & Karen Reivich
- Welcome to the Grief Club by Janine Kwoh
- What’s Your Grief? Lists to Help You Through Any Loss by Eleanor Haley & Litsa Williams
- When Bad Things Happen to Good People by Harold Kushner
- The Wild Edge of Sorrow by Francis Weller
Online Resources:
- CancerCare.org: Support groups for cancer loss
- The Dinner Party: A worldwide community of 20- and 30-somethings who have experienced loss
- Domani for Grief: Support, conversation, and community
- Grief in Common: Grieve, Gather, Grow
- Grief Anonymous
- GriefYoga.com
- Grieving.com: Online forums
- HealGrief.org: Support for young adults
- GriefHealingDiscussionGroups.com
- The Memory Circle
- Modern Loss: Candid conversations about grief
- OnlineGriefSupport.com
- Option B: Coping with grief
- Refuge in Grief: Writing Your Grief with Megan Devine
- Tender Hearts: A Community of Courageous Grievers
- Pause: A dedicated digital space for People of Color to find grief support
Books:
- Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss by Hope Edelman
- Motherless Mothers: How Losing a Mother Shapes the Parent You Become by Hope Edelman
- Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel
- The Fatherless Daughter Project: Understanding Our Losses and Reclaiming Our Lives by Denna Babul & Karin Luise
- The Orphaned Adult by Alexander Levy
- Parentless Parents by Allison Gilbert
Online Resources:
- Motherless Daughters: Online support, healing retreats, & courses
Books & Journals:
- Comfort for a Grieving Spouse’s Heart by Gary Roe
- Healing a Spouses Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas After Your Husband or Wife Dies by Alan Wolfelt
- The Widow’s Journal: Questions to Guide You through Grief and Life Planning after the Loss of a Partner by Carrie Freeman
- Widow to Widow by Genevieve Davis Ginsburg
- A Widow’s Guide to Healing by Kristen Meekof & James Windell
Online Resources:
- Soaring Spirits International: Building community for widowed men and women.
Books:
- Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child by Gary Roe
- Surviving the Loss of a Child by Elizabeth Brown
- The Unspeakable Loss by Nisha Zenoff
- When a Child Dies by Claire Aagaard
Online Resources:
- The Dougy Center: The right place when nothing feels right
- Compassionate Friends: Supporting parents after a child dies
- National Alliance for Children’s Grief: Resources for children, teens, and anyone who supports them
- MISS Foundation: Counseling and support programs or family members who have lost a child
For Children:
- When Someone Dies: A Children’s Mindful How-To Guide on Grief and Loss by Andrea Dorn
- Lost in the Clouds: A Gentle Story to Help Children Understand Death and Grief by DK & Tom Tinn-Disbury
- The Memory Box: A Book About Grief by Joanna Rowland
- The Sad Dragon by Steve Herman
- How I Feel: Grief Journal for Kids by Mia Roldan
- The Good Mourning by Seldon Peden
- Why Do I Feel So Sad? by Tracy Lambert-Prater
- My Sibling Still: for those who’ve lost a sibling to miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant death by Megan Lacourrege
- Lifetimes by Bryan Mellonie
For Adolescents:
- The Anxiety Toolkit for Teens by Teen Thrive
- A Grieving Teen: A Guide for Teens and Their Friends by Helen Fitzgerald
- Coloring the Shades of Grief and Healing by Lyn Ragan & Dorothy Pigue
- Grief Recovery for Teens by Coral Popowitz
- Straight Talk About Death for Teenagers by Earl Grollman
- When A Friend Dies: A Book For Teens About Grieving and Healing by Marilyn Gootman
- Welcome to the Grief Club by Janine Kwoh
- Healing Your Grieving Heart For Teens: 100 Practical Ideas by Alan Wolfelt
For Parents:
- The Grieving Child: A Parent’s Guide by Helen Fitzgerald
- A Parent’s Guide to Managing Childhood Grief by Katie Lear
- A Parent’s Guide to Raising Grieving Children by Phyllia Silverman
- 35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child by The Dougy Center
Grief Camps:
Online Resources:
Books:
- Life After Suicide by Jennifer Ashton
- Silent Grief: Living in the Wake of Suicide by Christopher Lukas
Online Resources:
- Alliance of Hope: Resources for survivors of suicide loss
- Everytown: Resources for survivors of gun violence
- Circles: Share. Not Shame.
- Heartbeat: Survivors after suicide
- Support After a Death by Overdose
Books, Journals, & Workbooks:
- At a Loss: Finding Your Way After Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Infant Death by Donna Rothert
- Grieving Together: A Couples Journey Through Miscarriage by Laura & Franco Fanucci
- Healing Your Grieving Heart After Miscarriage by Alan Wolfelt
- Holding Onto Love After You’ve Lost a Baby by Gary Chapman and Candy McVicar
- Letters to My Baby in Heaven: Grief Therapy Journal by Rami Naril Edtions
- Life After Baby Loss by Nicola Gaskin
- Miscarriage Grief Journal by Rachel Floyd
- The Miscarriage Map by Dr. Sunita Osborn
- The Miscarriage Map Workbook by Dr. Sunita Osborn
- Saying Goodbye: A Personal Story of Baby Loss by Zoe Clark-Coates
- Unexpecting: Real Talk on Pregnancy Loss by Rachel Lewis
- Unimaginable: Life After Baby Loss by Brooke Taylor
Online Resources
Books:
- Advice for Future Corpses (and Those Who Love Them) by Sallie Tisdale
- All the Ways Our Dead Still Speak by Caleb Wilde
- After This: When Life Is Over, Where Do We Go? by Claire Bidwell Smith
- The Art of Dying Well by Katy Butler
- A Beginner’s Guide to the End: Practical Advice for Living Life and Facing Death by Dr. BJ Miller and Shoshana Berger
- Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End by Atul Gawande
- Confessions of a Funeral Director by Caleb Wilde
- On Death and Dying by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
- Dying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing by Anita Moorjani
- Farewell: Vital End of Life Questions by Dr. Edward Creagan & Sandra Wendel
- Final Gifts: Understanding the Special Awareness, Needs, and Communications of the Dying by Maggie Callanan
- For You When I’m Gone by Steve Leder
- From Here to Eternity: Traveling the World to Find the Good Death by Caitlyn Doughty
- Let’s Talk About Death (over Dinner) by Michael Hebb
- Life Lessons by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler
- Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe by Laura Lynne Jackson
- That Good Night: Life and Medicine in the Eleventh Hour by Sunita Puri
- The Undying by Anne Boyer
- When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
Online Resources:
- Cake: End-of-life planning
- End Well: Making the end of life part of life
- Going With Grace: End-of-life planning, training, and support
- Good To Go: Unconventional advance planning
- Lantern: End-of-life planning
- Mettle Health: Support and Guidance for Serious Illness
- Remembering A Life: A guide to honoring a life well lived
- SEOL CARE: End-of-life support for the disability community
- The Pet Loss Companion by Ken Dolan-Del Vecchio & Nancy Saxton-Lopez
- Pet Loss Support: Online groups
- The Angel in My Pocket by Sukey Forbes
- Between Two Kingdoms by Suleika Jaouad
- Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner
- Dancing at the Pity Party by Tyler Feder
- The Dead Moms Club by Kate Spencer
- The Faraway Nearby by Rebecca Solnit
- From Scratch by Tembi Locke
- Future Widow by Jenny Lisk
- Grief is the Thing With Feathers by Max Porter
- H is For Hawk by Helen MacDonald
- Half a Life by Darin Strauss
- Her: A Memoir by Christa Parravani
- The Hot Young Widows Club by Nora McInerny
- Little Matches by Maryanne O’Hara
- The Long Goodbye by Megan O’Rourke
- No Happy Endings by Nora McInerny
- Notes on Grief by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
- The Rules of Inheritance by Claire Bidwell Smith
- Seeing Ghosts by Kat Chow
- The Still Point of the Turning World by Emily Rapp Black
- Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom
- Wave by Sonali Deraniyagala
- Widowish by Melissa Gould
- Wild by Cheryl Strayed
- The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion
Podcasts & Talks
Book a one-on-one grief consultation, join a support group, or register for Claire’s self-guided course.
Find a professional trained by Claire Bidwell Smith in the Grief Resource Directory.
Sign up to receive a free grief meditation along with resources, offerings, and latest news.
National Suicide Prevention Hotline
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services National Helpline
Please call 911 if you are in a life-threatening emergency and need immediate assistance.
What resources have helped you through your grief journey? Please let us know so we can share with others.